If love is the engine of a relationship, sex is the fuel. Yet, sometimes people who love each other completely may not have the same ‘sex drive’. When one partner has a high libido and the other partner has a lower libido, a rift can develop between the couple over time. Depending on the degree of discrepancy, relationships can disintegrate from their core if either partner is not satisfied with their sex lives. Ideally, sex is given and received as a shared experience without a sense of obligation, desired equally by both partners. Real life is often more complicated than this ideal picture, and that is where sex therapy can help to find the middle ground.